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We left Scotland for Australia 2 years ago, we’re moving back because we hate it
A FAMILY who swapped Scotland for Australia say they are returning home after struggling to make ends meet down under.
Mum-of-two Kimberley Lucas upped sticks at the beginning of last year in search of a better life for her husband and kids in Sydney.
But she has found the move difficult both financially and socially, sharing her struggles with her 8,000 followers on TikTok.
The family told how they had decided to move back to Scotland after they were left “shocked” by the long working hours, among other factors.
In a recent video, Kimberley said: “My husband works crazy hours here compared to the UK.
“He’s in construction and works a minimum of 50 hours per week, sometimes 60+ hours.
“He’s away before we wake up and usually just makes it home for the kids’ bedtime.
“His contract hours are 39 but everyone works longer with no overtime, which is just insane.”
The family also revealed they struggled to cover the cost of childcare in Australia.
The mum added: “Childcare is so expensive. We are not on a permanent resident visa so get no help with costs.
“Public school is $7,000-per-year for us and daycare is $23,700-per-year for three days (a week).
“In Scotland, education is free and we get 30 hours each week towards nursery fees.
“Permanent residency takes eight to 10 months after applying which means we would be $31,000 just for childcare next year.”
The family also expressed their concerns over their children missing out on crucial bonding with grandparents.
Kimberley added: “It seems like an obvious one, but I miss family so much,’ she said.
“Just popping in for a coffee whilst the kids get spoilt at their grandparents house or a sleepover at their aunties.
“Some of my best childhood memories were with my grandparents, and I hate that my kids can’t get to experience that.
“People visit, but it feels so bittersweet as you know they are leaving again and you won’t see them for another year.”
Kimberley also revealed she has struggled to “make friends” since the big move.
She wrote: “People are happy to talk to you but it doesn’t seem to go any further.
“A lot of mums seem to be a little older which means I don’t have a lot in common – I may be a mum but I love to go out once in a while and let my hair down.”
Followers flocked to the comments with messages of support, as many agreed about the difficulties of living down under.
One wrote: “I’m an Indonesian who lives in Australia and I agree. It’s hard to find genuine friends. They are friendly and talk to you but they don’t want to have friendship with me.”
Another put: “Do what you think is good for you. Australia isn’t for everyone, it takes a lot of work over many years to really make Australia home.”
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A third added: “I get this. Weather isn’t everything. And happiness is so personal.”
A fourth commented: “Life isn’t linear and when things no longer feel right we should make changes. No regrets, it’s just another chapter in your story.”